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If you think you're having problems with one person on FHDC try having a "higher up" come down on you and mirroring your d*land on the FHDC server. How do you think I feel? It has since been taken down (locked and will be deleted soon and moved to another server) but I have removed myself from FHDC not because of friends or normal fans, but because of the "higher ups." I was told in a message on there: "If you don't like FHDC or the people on it, get the hell off of it. I for one sure wouldn't complain. And you can post that on your diary, too." ------ and then the apology for the nasty post came in after that. I accepted it, realize that some have bad days and weeks, but still feel unwanted in a place I thought I was wanted. So I moved on. Do I want your sympathy like the "higher up" says I'm looking for? No I don't. I'm just stating that there are others that ruin things. This isn't a "community" in my opinion - it's more like high school with the cliques and treating someone as an outcast (blind in one eye makes for good jokes as a child.) I probably should've just wrote this on my new diary. But Gella, don't alienate the people who would stand by you and stand up for you as I've seen on the wall in the past. You have true friends there. Don't damage the frienship in anger. It's hard to mend. :( This is from experience.
from cdenise
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1:00 pm - Wednesday,May 7, 2003
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Is it possible that by involving an entire nation, and much of the world in a war that could turn into a larger conflict with greater consequences, that you may be laying down the lives of the people who don't want to go to war?
Don't you think that a nation going into war is much more dangerous than a movement of "pacifists"? And if someone feels that a particular military action is unjuct,is he or she automatically a pacifist?
from Fred
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11:33 pm - Sunday,May 4, 2003
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You didn't answer my question. I'm asking you right now, Gella, if you can be my friend. You made it all into hypotheticals... about whether you would hit some anonymous person if they were standing by you in a battle while you were fighting. You have written an imaginary conversation between the two of us (or perhaps you and all pacifists) on the subject of pacifism. I know what you think of pacifism. That wasn't my question. My question was about right now. Us. In a room. Me daring to speak my beliefs. Me. Melinda. Your friend who you have claimed to love on many occasions. Would. You. Hit. Me.
from melinda
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3:47 pm - Thursday,May 1, 2003
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"If you dare to say that killing is never ever justified I will slug you."
I guess it is a pretty safe thing to slug a pacifist, since you can be almost 100% certain that they aren't going to slug you back.
At the end of your entry you ask us all to reconsider our friendships with you. Since our morals aren't compatible and are, in fact, despicable. I can only assume that my morals fall into that category, since they are worth getting violent over. Clearly it is you who feel that you can't be friends with some of us, whether we feel the same way or not. You just don't want to do the dirty work. So I put it to you, Gella. If you can look me in the face (or virtual face, I guess) and say that you can't be my friend anymore because I am a pacifist (which of course means that I don't believe in either killing OR slugging under any circumstances), then just do it. You have said many times that you didn't want things to be wrong between us, despite our disagreements. Did you mean it? If I stood in front of you and dared to say that I don't think that killing is justified ever (which you know I believe), would you hit me? I just want to know.
from melinda
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9:58 am - Thursday,May 1, 2003
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i hope i'm not one of the people you're thinking of... please don't let me go.
from melinda
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8:48 am - Saturday,April 12, 2003
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Hey, I'm always up for some sushi.
from Paul
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2:18 am - Saturday,April 12, 2003
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i think it absolutely is about homophobia. or, in the case of ctw, at BEST fear of consequences of the homophobia of others. neither is admirable.
from melinda
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6:22 pm - Thursday,April 3, 2003
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this was nice to read. thank you.
from melinda
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6:25 am - Monday,March 31, 2003
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Become a MischHead?
from Paul
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9:57 pm - Sunday,February 23, 2003
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